1,5 roka mojho volneho casu a vela mojich penazi slo do vyvoja tejto facebookovej aplikacie, ktorou mozete aj vy pomahat deckam z tretieho sveta.
sirte prosim vo velkom, hardlinkujte do spriatelenych for - pretoze len, ak to ludia budu pouzivat bude mat cela tato sranda vlastne zmysel.
dakujem.
http://apps.facebook.com/help-a-child

I see you there thinking to yourself: "one day I will be powerful". It's the only way you can justify your powerless, impotent existence. But deep down you already know what you'll become: the same robotic, drone you are right now.

While you're working your job, I'm milking the real world for everything it offers: popularity, money, power, sex, and success. But you couldn't handle that anyway, right? Lie to yourself.

Let me guess: one day you'll have some power? Once you get that "job", that "degree" everything will change? Twenty years from now you'll be looking at everyone and thinking the exact same thing. It's the same thing that poor, bearded guy on the back of the bus is thinking. Don't believe me? Go talk to him and see for yourself.

If you don't change right now, you'll become just like that guy on the bus. You'll soon look into the mirror and realize you're old and your dreams have passed you by. Instead of dreaming about your future, you'll dream of getting back the youth that you're wasting away right now.


btw, ak to v niekom vyvolalo pocit menejcennosti, tak odporucam skusit zahnat hnevom (hnev je fajn, pokial je to len prejav uprimnych emocii, a neprezenie sa to az k destruktivnej zurivosti)
a ked usmev, tak fajn :)

Next!, Seth Godin..

The assembly-line mindset is a natural defense mechanism for the work we're asked to do all day.

One more form to fill out. Six more articles to write. Yet another soundcheck for yet another band playing at the venue where you work. You know there were hundreds before, there's one now, and there will be another soon, perhaps in just a few minutes.

So you sit down to remaster a classic album and you can't help but phone it in. There's another around the corner. You sit down to write another blog post and perhaps you cut yourself a little slack, because another one is due soon. This sales call? Don't worry so much, the call list is endless...

Next!

You might have already guessed the problems (there are at least two.) The first is that this is no way to do your work, your art, your chosen craft. Averaging the work down, achieving the least, getting it done--that's no way to spend your day. You deserve more than that.


hm, ked chceme mat co najlepsie vysledky, co nas k tomu vedie najviac?
sutazivost alebo sebarealizacia?
alebo su v harmonii?

I asked B today on the way back in the car how all the rules at her house made her feel. She said they make her feel anxious and untrusted , that her mother tells her she is a good kid and then makes all kinds of rules and that makes her feel like her mother is lying. Then I asked her about the rules at my house....she said well the rules at your house make sense, they are rules that make everyone feel safe, protected and trusted. We have very few rules and mostly they are rules of consideration and rules of safety (like if you light a candle it should be resting on something inflammable like a saucer or candle holder.... my friend's rule would be don't light candles).

Anyway I thought that was really interesting since so many people say kids need rules they like rules etc.

For years I have heard if kids don't have rules and limits they are unhappy. What I have seen proved to me over and over is that if kids are given arbitrary rules they feel untrusted ! Now I have proof directly from the mouth of a child who lives her life bound by rules all made by other people. Interestingly enough she lives with a step sister (same age) that sneaks, lies, cheats, breaks rules, skips school, runs away, has been asked to leave two schools, and so on.... the parents' answer to her behavior is to make more rules! UGH!

It just seems to me that if we give kids so many rules about sleeping, eating, behaving and everything else how will they ever learn to make their own decisions? How can these people expect their kids to make good choices in life if they are constantly making rules that say clearly "you are not trusted to make the right choice" ???

ad Nine Life Crises: http://kyberia.sk/id/5559552

3. FIXED - mal som blokovany hnev, a tak som sa utapal vo vycitkach, lebo som nespokojnost s vecami riesil nespokojnostou so sebou, aj ked to nebola moja chyba (akoze $1 za buchnutie kladivom, ale $999,999 za to ze som dosiel na to, kde mam chybu v chapani: primerany hnev JE spravny, a potlacanim vznikaju neprekonatelne vycitky za hocijaku blbost, aj ked to neni moja chyba, ale proste ak nereagujem nespokojnostou, tak podvedomie sa snazit reagovat aspon nejak inak..)

4. stalo na 3ke, uprimne mi je teraz pri hlupych ludoch jedno, ze ma neuznaju, pretoze su tupi a nemozu uznat nieco, co nedokazu pochopit.. ale takych ja nepotrebujem, ludia co ziju len pre seba, a nemaju zaujem prepajat sa s inymi bytostami, su pre mna slepe vetvy v evolucii - uspech spociva v prepajani sa s ludmi, v stimulacii myslienok priatelmi

5. konecne mam gule, chut a energiu naplno sa realizovat.. hruby drzy odhad je, ze zhruba do roka ti vnimavejsi pochopia kto je to psycho, a zacnu sa im spajat bodky vsetkych mojich aktivit ci uz na kybci alebo v zivote


zatial sa budem venovat najma sebe, ale myslim si, ze spokojny budem jedine ked sa budem maximalne realizovat, a najviac ma laka fixovat svet, odstranovat nepravie, podporovat principy veduce k slobode.. takze snivam o tom, ze jedneho dna sa stane bill gates moj mentor vo filantropii :) jeziis, predstava, ze by vo mne sam uzasny bill gates videl potencial a pomahal mi rast na jeho uroven.. do tohto musim dat vsetko!!!111!

Intelligent Individuals Don’t Make Groups Smarter

An early effort at defining general intelligence in groups suggests that individual brainpower contributes little to collective smarts.
- "egoisticki elitari su pre spolocnost zbytocni"

Instead, it’s social awareness — the ability to pick up on emotional cues in others — that seems to determine how smart a group can be.
- "zdielanie a prepajanie sa myslienok ludi je klucove pre vyvoj spolocnosti"


preto nefunguje diktatura, komunizmus
preto nefuguju korporacie, nadradujuci sa sefovia
preto nefunguje centralizacia moci
potom to stoji na subjektivite jedneho cloveka, a zvadza ho to k uzavretosti, ked ma pocit, ze je najdolezitejsi
system, firma, spolocnost - nic nemoze fungovat pokial su tam niektori ludia rovnejsi
priroda stoji na slobode jednotlivcov - kazde steblo rastie same, kazdy strom, kazde zviera, a kazdy clovek by mal tiez zit za seba..

centralizovana subjektivita is the root of all evil

The Privacy Paradox (psychologytoday.com)

You may not be physically alone throughout the day, but you're probably not interacting in a meaningful way with the people around you. Even the people we see regularly often remain strangers, and the bigger the city, the more likely you are not to know the woman who delivers your mail or the man at the counter of your local coffee shop. We pass our days in the company of existential strangers. The net effect is one of malaise—dysthymia—because we are toiling, eating, and sleeping amid people who remain distant and aloof.

As evolutionary psychologists point out, humans developed in tight tribes. People were aloof only when they were actively rejecting one another. Hence the ping of irritation or concern we feel when an e-mail goes unanswered, a phone call ignored. Hence, too, the oppressive feeling we can get from being constantly surrounded by strangers—even if we can't articulate the source of our discomfort.

For most of human history solitude occurred only in small doses; wander off on the savannah and you'd be dead. Today, all you have to do is lock the door and turn off your phone.

We arrive at the 21st century as profoundly social beings who risk severing their own lifeline. With the exception of parent-child and romantic relations, we no longer hug, kiss, and hold each other for warmth, protection, and reassurance. Our interactions have become vastly more sanitized. No one's complaining about central heating, but our spectrum of communication is severely restricted. Today it's inappropriate to brush up against someone you like or even to look them in the eye too bracingly.

Modern life allows us to become too self-absorbed, immersed in hurt, self-protection, and sadness.

What to do? Nurture your connections with people you like and people who may require your help. You can be selective, but one thing that we know about combating dysthymia is that when you treat others kindly and fairly, refuse to nurture a grudge, and throw yourself into creative endeavors, your mood lifts. Only by doing that which sometimes feels unnatural—being open to new people— will we override our impulse to withdraw.

What Eminem Knows About Being Confident That You Don’t

Freedom and the Left

One of the most innocent-sounding examples of the left's many impositions of its vision on others is the widespread requirement by schools and by college admissions committees that students do "community service."

There are high schools across the country from which you cannot graduate, and colleges where your application for admission will not be accepted, unless you have engaged in activities arbitrarily defined as "community service."

The arrogance of commandeering young people's time, instead of leaving them and their parents free to decide for themselves how to use that time, is exceeded only by the arrogance of imposing your own notions as to what is or is not a service to the community.

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The most fundamental question is: What in the world qualifies teachers and members of college admissions committees to define what is good for society as a whole, or even for the students on whom they impose their arbitrary notions?

What expertise do they have that justifies overriding other people's freedom? What do their arbitrary impositions show, except that fools rush in where angels fear to tread?

What lessons do students get from this, except submission to arbitrary power?

  http://www.ted.com/talks/steven_johnson_where_good_ideas_come_from.html

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aj zdanlivo zle napady stoja za preskumanie, treba v nich najst, ze preco ma pritahuju..
keby v nich nie je aspon nieco dobre, tak by ma to ani nenapadlo..
takze ked sa mi napad paci, tak by som mal za tym ist, lebo mozno 90% su nezmysly (na co pridem, len ak to budem riesit), ale tych 10% moze byt nejaky zakladny princip, ktory vnimam zatial len intuitivne podvedome, ale postupne ako nad nim budem rozmyslat, tak mi z neho vyrastie cela myslienka..

The world bursts at the seams with people ready to tell you you’re not good enough. On occasion some may be correct. But do not do their work for them. Seek any job; ask anyone out; pursue any goal. Don’t take it personally when they say “no” – they may not be smart enough to say “yes”.

~ Keith Olbermann

2. Defaultne ľudia preberaju nastavenia spoločnosti. Takže áno, väčšina to tak má, pokiaľ to vedome nezmení. Ja osobne si vyberám dobré pocity pred nedobrými nezávisle od toho čo si myslí väčšina. Tento setting som vymenil za slobodu.

Kyberia je komunita ludi, ktori ... su sucastou toho isteho naroda ... bytosti, ktore chcu byt stastne a slobodne, s vysokou mierou respektu voci ostatnym, a hladom po novych zazitkoch a informaciach.

sry za ot, ale chcem sa podelit..
ja som dlho neuspesne bojoval s tymi narokmi na seba

az mi raz jedna 'alternativna liecitelka' dala analogiu, ze som bol v minulom zivote lovec hadov [ehm, neriesit :) bol som tam zo zufalosti z ekzemu], ze som sa pustal do velkych hadov na ktorych som este nebol pripraveny, a tak ma vzdy dostipali, a postupne som mal v krvi tolko jedu, az som na to umrel mlady..

no a long story short - povedal som si, ze naroky mozem mat, ze som dost dobry na hocico, ale ze ma to postupne nici ked idem na 200%, lebo to nejde dlho, a potom sa to strieda so stavmi kedy som na nule, samovrazedne myslienky kazdych par dni.. vtedy som si uvedomil, ze ked pojdem len na 100%, ale stabilne, tak dosiahnem viac..

velke naroky a ciele zostali (hrdost neznizim), ale cestu k nim som si zvolil primeranejsiu, tak aby som si viac uzival zivot, aby som lovil mensie 'hady' ktore zvladam 'bez ustipnutia' - a akokolvek absurdne to znie, zda sa ze mi to pomohlo z bipolarity k cca stabilnemu sebavedomiu

NINE LIFE CRISES

The nine life crises are a normal and necessary part of the maturation process. They are a state of disequilibrium which exists when shifting from one energy level to another. Each crises when overcome leads to greater maturity and a higher level of energy. The danger lies in getting too comfortable, avoiding the crises of the next level and stagnating in the last energy you have mastered. Until you activate all of the energies and reach the top of the pyramid, the tenth energy, you must go on to the next challenge, the next crises. On the other hand, you cannot master the next energy until you have finished with the last one. If you miss one, then you can go back and delve into it and resolve it with a therapist. A resolved crises makes its blocked energy available.


1. Birth - Sex:
Begin born is a trauma, but also the first orgasm. You were nourished in the womb. Now you have to have the courage to live on your own. If you do not get this energy you may be depressive, suicidal or sexually maladjusted.

2. Adaptation - Growth:
The approach to this courage is adaptation - having confidence that parents and friends mean well, if and as you comply with their wishes and perform according to their expectations. This is fine and works, but only for a few years.

3. Personal Archetype:
However, around 3 to 4 years old you discover you have an ego, an individuality. You say "no" to what you don't like and you use your first name: ego appears. Unless your parents accept you as something very special, and allow the expression of your ego individuality, you will fall back into complete adaptation and be manipulated your whole life. You will remain a child, overly placating, and never attain your personal archetype, your special time potential. If you find yourself, but get obsessed with yourself and do not get to the next energy, then the danger is narcissism and egotism.

4. Strategies:
If you are lucky and have parents who do not destroy your special individuality, but instead confirm it and help it blossom, then others will hate you and will try to humiliate you and put you down. Here you have to develop strategies, with the goal of attaining success, as for instance in the Chinese slogan of the martial arts: "Don't fight, just win." The number of possible humiliations is limited. It is wise to know them as quickly as possible; so in the words of the Native American sage, Don Juan: search for a "petty tyrant". The danger is obsession with gamesmanship, using people as mere furniture in the floorplan of life.

5. Norm:
Having established your strategies, the final step is to find your Norm. You do this by gaining competence in a role recognized by the public, like being a baker, a professor, a doctor or a skilled worker. The danger is becoming your job, one dimensional, "work-a-holic".


The first five crises correspond to the left hand; next you start on the right, being able to participate in public life. The next crises do not hamper your survival, the right hand is free to act.


6. Valuing/Setting Priorities:
This is the beginning of social existence, acting beyond yourself to fulfill a larger social-historical role. One danger here is fighting for other people's motivations, belief systems or creeds, instead of your own. There is also the danger of getting caught up in the battle and losing sight of the aim. As they say in Florida, "When you are up to your ass in alligators, its hard to remember that the original objective was to drain the swamp."

7. Individuation:
If you master the sixth level and open yourself up to the next crises, you will suddenly begin to realize that things that just happen to you - the unplanned "accidents" - are just as meaningful, even more so, than your planed events. Then you will then find yourself by acting, communicating and sharing with others. You won't find yourself by thinking about it. The individuation process does not mean a person evolves into isolation. Just the opposite. It means real participation in a larger whole, in the universal archetypes and collective unconsciousness. Here you can get help by Jungian or Gestalt therapy. The danger in this stage lies in acting without direction, not knowing when to let go, even when the path begins to lead to nowhere, to chaos.

8. Intuition/Mantic:
Once you master the seventh level, and feel that good things happen to you all the time, you will want to establish a more coherent pattern of life. You will yearn to know better when to give up a course of action that does not lead you in the right direction. In the mathematical language of chaos, you will want to know when to avoid growing chaos by falling back into the Zero to try a new iteration. Then you will start to go heavily into divination, into continual games of question and answer - like Oracle-Channeling, I Ching, Astrology, Tarot, Playing Cards. These messages give you guidance and lead to greater coherence. But again there is still a danger of stagnation. There is the danger of the "superstition trap" where you start depending upon the games too much, instead of your inner voice.

9. Inspiration/Mystic:
Then you move into the last crises where you start trusting your inspirations and visions. You start to feel like a real poet, taking part in the cosmic dance, except that you do not make it up, it happens to you, e.g. Mozart's famous remark: "I received all of my symphonies, each in one instant, directly from God, but I am glad that God composes in Mozartian style." Inspiration is direct and sudden, coming in a flash, whereas intuition was slower, structured and occurring through an intermediary. This is the move from dark intuition, to conscious knowing and participation. The Universe now guides you directly through signs. You dance confidently on the edge of chaos, in tune with the strange attractor, delighted by the fractal beauty of the constant confirmations which appear all around you.

10. Higher Self:
Having traveled so far you are now Normal, fully realized, as opposed to the norm or average. All of your energies are activated and mastered. You have reached the top of the pyramid and can manifest at all levels of maturity. Like the Noble Gases you are now whole and complete. You have abandoned all self criticism, guilt and self pity. Your personal energy and maturation complete, your sole aim is to participate in the great work of civilization, stretching beyond this earth to our future existence. The next level in many traditions is called the New Earth, experienced in Islam as situated behind the Polar Star. It is the home of the Ancestors. You will now make the difference between the sacred and the profane. You will participate in rituals of all kinds. You will establish communion beyond competition, greed and power games. Though still on Earth, you will be a living connection to the Ancestors on the New Earth, the beyond. You will be a bridge between life and death, this world and the next.

To know someone truly, look at what he does when no one is paying him.

~ Brian Jay Stanley

Imagine a society of saints, a perfect cloister of exemplary individuals. Crimes or deviance, properly so-called, will there be unknown; but faults, which appear venial to the layman, will there create the same scandal that the ordinary offense does in ordinary consciousnesses. If then, this society has the power to judge and punish, it will define these acts as criminal (or deviant) and will treat them as such.

~ Émile Durkheim, 1895

pred par dnami som sa bavil s "nadriadenym", ze ludom chyba zmysel, ze zo zaciatku sme mali jasny ciel, a teraz sa vsetko normalizuje, a ze z praca a ludi sa tak vytratilo nadsenie.. na to som dostal odpoved, ze sak kazdy ma vlastnu motivaciu, ze ci nie som rad, ked svoju pracu spravim dobre..

vtedy som stratil rec :) lebo je sice pekne, ze robim veci tak, aby som bol s nimi spokojny.. ale otazka je, ze co mi to prinesie ked budem pokracovat napr. 10 rokov - v pripade zamestnancov je odpoved, ze velke nic, a zamestnavatelovi to samozrejme vyhovuje, pokial je to podnikatel komunista, tj. ze ludi zdiera vo svoj prospech, narozdiel od rozumneho kapitalistu, ktory chape, ze ludia maju najlepsie vysledky, ked robia pracu pre seba a pre svoju buducnost..

jednoducho ak chce podnikatel, aby niekto pracoval na jeho vizii, tak sa neda ludi podplatit aby tu viziu zdielali.. tych ludi treba nadchnut, inak su to len oveckovski zamestnanci, ktorym je v podstate jedno ake budu vysledky, hlavne ze dostanu plat..
tak som teraz hodil do googla ze "fallacy of self-motivation", a hned prvy link:

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The fallacy behind ‘self-motivation’

While driving slowly to work during the recent snowstorm, I felt protected inside my little car. However, the delays from the snow were going to ruin my entire day, so I sat worrying, planning and thinking about how I was going to fulfill my responsibilities.

My thoughts stopped and my priorities changed when I saw a group of men struggling to push a snowbound vehicle out of the snow on the side of the road. Without a second thought, I pulled my car over and joined the strangers in the knee-deep snow trying to push the vehicle free. A minute later another gentleman joined us, then another.

Within five minutes, we had five guys pushing. When the tires finally grabbed the road and the car broke free under its own power, we looked at each other with smiles of a job well-done. We gave each other the man-nod, made some casual jokes about the snow and with snow-soaked trousers all, we went our separate ways.

For five minutes, nobody was thinking about work; there was no worry — no stress. For five minutes, a group of strangers, united only by a common mission, were completely and totally in the moment, helping a person with real needs.

People change, but not for the reasons you think. People may be motivated to change because they want something bad enough, but these motivations of self are never enough to produce sustainable results. In fact, the entire concept of self-motivation is oxymoronic. Motivation for yourself, alone, is simply not possible; it is not a real motivation.

To grow, we must figure out what our real motivations are. No matter what we want to do, real change only comes when other people are involved; this is just simple human nature.

Good things happen when we tune in to the real needs of other people. Good things happen because we’re being true — we’re not fighting what comes naturally.

Thinking, worrying and planning, alone, will not help us grow stronger businesses, weave closer families and build healthier communities. Creating this positive change requires the ability to stop our mind chatter long enough to recognize the people with real needs all around us — needs we can help fulfill.
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treba to spravit tak, aby boli vsetky oblasti uplne pristupne a nebol problem do nich dostat akykolvek napad zvonka..
ze skratka dostanes napad a hned by si vedel, za kym treba ist a kde ho treba riesit, aby sa zrealizoval..

~ id lesana

(v zapale diskusie, ze co nam cielavedomym no neskusenym ludom chyba, co chceme vybudovat pre buduce generacie)

http://matt.might.net/articles/phd-school-in-pictures/

Deti potrebujú stále, neustále podnety. A potrebujú niekoho, s kým budú denno denne o tom rozprávať. Ľudí, s ktorými sa budú motivovať navzájom, ktorí im budú dvíhať hlavy.

~ Dolníková, TEDxBratislava - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kHXIPPVxznw

The Face of Facebook

Zuckerberg is only around five feet eight, but he seems taller, because he stands with his chest out and his back straight, as if held up by a string. His standard attire is a gray T-shirt, bluejeans, and sneakers. His affect can be distant and disorienting, a strange mixture of shy and cocky.

When he’s not interested in what someone is talking about, he’ll just look away and say, “Yeah, yeah.” Sometimes he pauses so long before he answers it’s as if he were ignoring the question altogether. The typical complaint about Zuckerberg is that he’s “a robot.”

Asked if he’s the same person in front of a crowd as he is with friends, Zuckerberg responded, “Yeah, same awkward person.”

If you want change, you have to tolerate imperfection and risk.

Approval Addiction

Approval addiction is the extreme need to have everyone approve of what you say, think, or do. It can color every area of your life to such an extent that you live in great fear of disapproval from people, and you are willing to do just about anything to avoid it. You may codependently over-serve others, or be over-responsible for things that are really other peoples rightful responsibility, just to avoid their rejection or disapproval no matter what.

Approval addicts live in a prison of constant effort and striving to be liked and approved of by everyone, and they will go to any length to avoid rejection or disapproval because of their deep fear and insecurity problem. An approval addict is never happy because they are not free to be themselves, they are trapped inside a mold of having to be a chameleon to be what they think everyone else around them wants them to be. This is not how God created us to be, nor to live, we are all individuals that have the right to our own opinions and personal preferences that can be completely independent of what someone else's are.
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nj, mania, vela myslienok (:

dochadzam na vela veci, o ktore by som sa chcel podelit
tak ako male deti utekaju za matkou ze "mami, mami, aha co sa mi podarilo", maju aj dospeli taketo miesto, kde sa mozu pochvalit za dobre veci, ktore spravili?
ako strasne dobre mi zvyklo robit, ked..

..ked som na strednej nakodil 3D hru, a spoluziaci - este aj ti co ma vacsinou nemali radi - na mna reagovali, ze som 'blazon' ze co som dokazal..
..ked som vo worku zbuchal do 3D navigacie novu featuru, a dosla sa skupinka ludi pozriet, a chvalili ze 'dobreee'..
..ked som jednej starsej mudrejsej a mnou velmi uznavanej osobe popisoval moje plany, viacmenej idealy, a ona ma ocenila, ze to mam dobre vymyslene, a ze mame podobne ciele..

keby sa mi nestane hentych zopar vynimocnych situacii, tak ani neviem, ze mi nieco chyba :/
vacsinou ludia praveze reaguju negativne na to, ked sa chce clovek pochvalit - ale nebodaj uz nezazivame tie velke objavy ako ked sme boli detmi?
ja teda zazivam..
a ten pocit, kedy som na seba hrdy co som dosiahol, je akoby som spravil dalsi krok po schodoch zivota..

da sa byt uspesny bez toho, aby sme boli na svoj uspech hrdi? [zo zaciatku hrdi aspon vo vlastnej hlave, tajne ;)]

nech nezabudnem..

tvrdo pracovat je nezmysel - praca nema byt tvrda, ale zazivna..
vysledok myslenia si ze praca je tazka a tvrda su zmoreni ludia, ktori nevidia zmysel v praci, resp. vidia zmysel v prekonavani 'tvrdosti' prace.. to je podobne ako ked sa v skole tvaria, ze ucivo je tym hustejsie, cim je tazsie - bullshit.. ucenie ma bavit..

bez prace nie su kolace je nezmysel - praca ma mat zmysel, a cim sme spokojnejsi, tym viac sa mozeme sustredit na tu zmysluplnu pracu..
jediny dovod preco by niekto sluboval kolace za pracu je ten, ze nevie odkomunikovat 'zmysel'.. kolko je dobrovolnickych organizacii, kde ludia nepracuju za kolace, kde ta praca samotna je tymi kolacmi..

introvertnost je zo strachu, a nie ako som si myslel za cias svojej introvercie, ze to ja proste preferujem samotu - preferovat samotu je jedna vec (kazdy obcas potrebuje), ale neprejavovat sa medzi ludmi a potlacat potrebu prejavit sa, je druha vec, a je to blok, vobec to nie je prirodzene..
prirodzene je to, co robi clovek bez zabran, vtedy sa prejavuje skutocna podstata cloveka.. tj, napriklad pri alkohole, vtedy clovek robi to co chce - ano, vela ludi tuzi po riadnych picovinach :)


Can you change from introvert to extrovert?
It's much more simple guys.
Introverted = The fear of critiscism is stronger than the need for human contact.
Extrovert = The need for human contact is stronger than the fear of criticism.

Wether you are one or other at the moment depends on your fear of criticism. How do you change it? You start acting extrovertedly, and you deal with the fear of criticism until you see that there really isn't anything to be afraid of and boom, you're extroverted.

I've seen the Promised Land. I may not get there with you. But I want you to know tonight, that we, as a people, will get to the promised land!

~ Martin Luther King

  http://www.ted.com/talks/nic_marks_the_happy_planet_index.html

Statistician Nic Marks asks why we measure a nation's success by its productivity -- instead of by the happiness and well-being of its people. He introduces the Happy Planet Index, which tracks national well-being against resource use (because a happy life doesn't have to cost the earth). Which countries rank highest in the HPI? You might be surprised.


mimochodom, ked budem velky a bohaty a vplyvny, tak zoberem tie najlepsie krajiny, spisem v com vsetkom sa slovensko odlisuje, a postupne rozpracujem postup, akym sposobom sa na tu uroven dostali.. a mozme zacat aplikovat ;)

Professionals, amateurs and the great unwashed

If you want something done, perhaps you would ask a professional to do it. Someone who costs a lot but is worth more than they charge. Someone who shows up even when she doesn't feel like it. Someone who stands behind her work, gets better over time and is quite serious indeed about the transaction.

Or perhaps you could hire a passionate amateur. That's a forum leader doing it for love, not money. An obsessive in love with the craft. A talented person willing to trade income for the chance to do what he loves, with freedom.

Please, though, don't hire someone who just thinks it's a job. This category represents the majority of your options, and this category is what gives work a bad name.

Freedom, however, is not the last word. Freedom is only part of the story and half of the truth. Freedom is but the negative aspect of the whole phenomenon whose positive aspect is responsibleness. In fact, freedom is in danger of degenerating into mere arbitrariness unless it is lived in terms of responsibleness.

~ Viktor Frankl


neexistuje sloboda ublizovat, existuje len sloboda konat podla seba, vramci zodpovedneho moralneho spravania.. tj, pokial niekto porusi slobodu inych, tak tym deklaruje, ze neakceptuje pravidla, ktore zarucuju slobodu jemu samotnemu, a teda je v poriadku mu tuto slobodu odobrat (a to je zmysel zakonov a policie, efektivne chranit slobodu nevinnych)

hm, vnimam to tak, ze ked niekoho zabijes, zhorsil si stav spolocnosti
ked nespravis nic, tak nezmenis nic
ked babke pomozes cez cestu, tak trochu polepsis svet
ked das znudenym ludom aspon nejaky stimul, ze si zahraju futbal, alebo precitaju bulvar, tak aspon niekam daju energiu, volaco velmi nepodstatne sa dozvedia, a tak aspon budu moct diskutovat a rozsirovat socialnu siet (popri 'srackach' si vsak vymenia aj uzitocne info)
no a idealne je potom ked citaju nieco velmi prospesne..

mierne ot:
da sa to ale vnimat aj tak, ze ludia su proste len stroje, ktore spracovavaju vstupy, ktore sa k nim dostanu..
ak sa k cloveku cely zivot dostavaju inspirativne a na myslenie narocne veci, vyrastie z neho mysliaci clovek
pokial chodi len s kamaratmi pit, a pozera telku, tak z toho asi moc nebude
no a vacsina ludi teraz chodi do prace a nic sa k nim nedostava, a nikde sa nenaucili, ze mozu nieco viac chciet..

takze otazka je, ze ako z takejto situacie von - co je idealne, co mozes v spolocnosti spravit, aby si inspiroval tychto ludi robit nieco viac.. ja sa inak cudujem, ze na toto nie su vyskumne sociologicke demograficke kulturne ustavy, ktore by sustavne analyzovali, co spolocnost posuva vyrazne dopredu.. na druhej strane, v krajine je tolko systemov, ktore maju obrovske nedostatky, nezmyselne skolstvo, skorumpovana politika, sikanujuci policajti, chamtivi podnikatelia..

imho jedine riesenie je, ze ludia pojdu ako blazni za svojimi nerealnymi snami.. potom povznika eset, sygic, dive maky, TEDxBa, websupport, a neviem co vsetko, co su veci na vyssej urovni ako je priemer.. ked to takto pojde dalej, tak sa zacne kapital prelievat z bank do podnikatelov (trend je taky), a teda sa skvalitnia sluzby, postupne krajina zbohatne.. tito novi ludia uz snad zmenia veci, napriklad poznam troch ludi, co chcu zalozit skolu, a stvrteho co zalozil (waldorf).. osobne poznam kopec strasne energickych cielavedomych a ambicioznych ludi, ktori nepochybne nieco dosiahnu ak sa nevzdaju.. vratane mna :)

a snad vznikne volaco, kde budem moct pisat tieto moje veci, co mam furt na srdci, ale pri negativistoch sa bojim povedat, aby ma za to nesikanovali :/