what if, the idealism is born on top of many feel-good moments, even though it may seem that people who are idealist are actually suffering more, maybe the fact is that the more shit we experience, the more we learn to deal with it, and in the end it makes us more able to cope with bad stuff, to be able to enjoy the moment

therefore, it's just stupid to be bad to 'bad' people, it's like rich person kicking poor person because he's not doing his best, ignoring the situation in which he might feel pretty helpless..

and the question is, what good is idealism anyway? isnt that just a over-rational way of forcing the right answers? shouldnt the idealism be only used in an emotional way? isnt the idealism actually just the result of many good experiences??? then by scolding those people, we are actually pushing their idealism back.. it may seem like we are fighting for our ideals, but all we actually do is force our ideals, and the only way to "force" the ideals on person is to let him enjoy the good peaceful state of mind, enjoy the good decisions, good feelings, let him enjoy the rightness, strength..