We haven’t had a good poly based post in a while and I know for me trying and failing to start up a 2nd it’s always good to see how it works for others and take time to look at yourself. So one the questions i am asked a lot when i am looking on online dating sites is don’t you get jealous? Seeing your wife going out with someone else? And I normally find a way to explain it saying “yes but…” Now today I came across this great post by Research to be done and thought it was too good not to share. Here are ten responses you could give to the question…

“But if your partner can have other partners, don’t you get jealous?”

1.Of course.
2.Yeah, but ...
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http://youonlywetter.co.uk/blog/2014/04/07/ten-responses-dont-get-jealous/