Why did she go from showering me with tons of attention, worships the ground I walk on – to being vicious, cold, mean, silent and disinterested?

Why did she change? In the beginning she was so convincing, so eager and so quickly to convince me, that the love we shared was ‘golden’..

Ignoring me and avoiding me one minute, and so normal the next..

You ask yourself, what could I have possibly done wrong? Why is she ignoring me? Why did she lose interest? Why is she avoiding me?

Was it the conversation I initiated about our future? Or that day when I was sick and cranky? Maybe it was the phone call from her ex?

WHAT IS IT?

Obsessed with having answers, like me, did you try desperately to get her to open up?

Did it seem like the closer you tried to get to her, the further she pushed you away? The more questions you asked, she became colder, more silent, ignoring your attempts?

Perhaps you tried so hard to ignore her change in behavior, thinking she must be going through something and all the while desperately trying to avoid showing any signs of being too needy or clingy?

Then you start to wonder….

What the HELL just happened?

What is going on with HER? Why did she push me away? Why is my relationship falling apart?

You despise feeling so insecure, but wondering and not knowing feels like torture!

There has to be a logical explanation for her change in behavior.

If only you knew what was happening, why she was so distant and different than before, you could fix this, right?

So you give it a shot and guess what… After weeks of pure hell, pretending to act like you don’t care, avoiding the need to contact her and looking for every torturous way to keep yourself occupied, SHE CALLS!!!!

Pretending as if nothing was wrong, nothing ever happened, and back to the old sweet, loving caring person, she wants to see you!

BUT… Soon thereafter, you see a change!

It was happening again.. She’s cold and distant. She’s mean, silent, distracted and lacks interest. This time she is so abusive! She tells me she needs space, to leave her alone, go away and get gone!

So of course, like me – you’re confused, depressed like hell, heart broken and in pain!

You have a million questions and emotions running through your mind!

What the hell is going on here?

WHY IS THIS HAPPENING???