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fajn sposob, ako "hresit" dieta..
Purely on instinct, my wife and I made a policy early on with our son (now 14) when it came to praise and reprimand. Praise was specific. Not just 'look what a good drawing you did' -- but 'I really like the way you've done the trees. You put a lot of thought into that. That's great'.
We banned phrases like 'you're naughty' or 'you're stupid' -- but instead went for 'you're a really good boy - why did you do something like that?' or 'you're so clever - this isn't like you...'
Our hope was that we embedded the positive reinforcement even when discouraging bad behaviour. It seems to have worked well. He's a great kid.
Like I said - there wasn't really any science in it, we just thought it sounded like it made sense.
[koment pri clanku: What's the best way to praise a child? Be specific.]
Purely on instinct, my wife and I made a policy early on with our son (now 14) when it came to praise and reprimand. Praise was specific. Not just 'look what a good drawing you did' -- but 'I really like the way you've done the trees. You put a lot of thought into that. That's great'.
We banned phrases like 'you're naughty' or 'you're stupid' -- but instead went for 'you're a really good boy - why did you do something like that?' or 'you're so clever - this isn't like you...'
Our hope was that we embedded the positive reinforcement even when discouraging bad behaviour. It seems to have worked well. He's a great kid.
Like I said - there wasn't really any science in it, we just thought it sounded like it made sense.
[koment pri clanku: What's the best way to praise a child? Be specific.]